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My wife wrote on her Face Book wall  a few days ago (and since we have been the target for many rad fems) the meaning of radical and how anything extremes is destructing and divisive. When we bring up the curtains and remove the veil, we actually get to see the truth behind the intent. Let it be known that any movement that may have been started with organic and purest of intent, ends up being perverted by politics and its original meaning lost and ruined.

Angry people stand behind these movement pushing their own angry filled agenda and hate. Lets take a look at Jesus, he came to show us the way, and told us “we too can do great things than him and that the kingdom of eternity and love is within us, not outside of us”. It’s not based on what you tithe or how many times you go to church, or if you judge others, (so you don’t get to see your own faults). So Christianity, although claimed to be started by or for  Jesus, was actually a tool of politic devise, it is used to push hateful agenda’s and to promote a separatist mentality. I know there are good hearted Christians, but the gist of the religion is based on blood shed and control, the follower are taught not to think and have blind faith, they judge others, and feel they are better than everyone else, at least this is what Lynna and I have encountered and I am sure others have too. But we don’t hate Christians or wish for them to have separate bathrooms and an island of their own.

Same thing goes for this Rad Fem movement, started with good intent but instead is now based on venom and hatred against men. I will say, men are responsible for lots of bad things, but women went right along with it, so why put all the blame on one species and see the other as a saint? Women have power, in fact women dominated in years past, just do some research on matriarchal systems in ancient history.  Women are entitled to their privacy from men, but what they don’t get is that trans women see themselves as women, they gave up the male card and the same hormones run through their veins as any genetic female. Their hearts feel just the same, so why push them away, to promote the hateful agenda that most Rad fems push?

I stand for women, I stand for men, I stand for trans folks, I stand for everyone in the LGBT community, I mostly stand for love and acceptance for all. Stop pushing your hateful agenda’s and for those that say its not hate, they are only protecting women, no you are not, and yes you have hate, deal with truth and find out what makes you feel this hate and please get help. Man hating is not normal, in fact any kind of hating is pathological.

Two wrongs don’t make a right and forgiveness may just save you in the end. Carrying anger and allowing our traumas to dictate our lives only creates further problems and divide. My own anger almost destroyed me, coming from a place of love and understanding feels way better, believe me.


I love you but remember to love yourselves too






About Mark Angelo Cummings

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10 thoughts on “RADICAL DESTROYS

  1. Very disappointed to see you making claims about radical feminism being about hate. We’re about liberating women from oppression.

    Liked by 4 people

    Posted by purplesagefem | January 19, 2016, 9:30 pm
    • oppression is a terrible thing for everyone, not just women. I believe oppression is not sex based, but human based. The problem in our world is that everyone wants to make their cause the most important and we proceed to point fingers at each other. The conversation needs to be had and finger pointing needs to cease. I personally am not into radical or extreme anything, i believe in balance and happy mediums. I believe in responsibility of people not division. But these are my opinion and I should be entitled to them, since I have been given reasons to think this way. I am not claiming that al rad fems are bad or that the protection of women are not needed, but I believe that we are missing the bigger picture by just focusing on one particular problem.


      Posted by Maritza Cummings (Ritz) | January 20, 2016, 1:38 am
    • why not focus on fixing the problem and not make it gender specific, we give birth to men, we shape their world as mothers, to point fingers and say this world is bad because of men and women are oppressed is not showing the full picture. Women can be as violent, just look at the domestic violence in lesbian relationships, as well as violence committed by women in hetero marriages. Its easy to point finger at others, but we then only see half a picture. The only reason I am pointing this things out, is to clarify that RF is not only about liberating women from oppression, we can’t really say that can we? Please note I know many great rad fems, but I believe the ideology has been hijacked.


      Posted by Maritza Cummings (Ritz) | January 20, 2016, 1:53 am
  2. A woman has one or more of the following body parts: a womb, a vagina, ovaries, Fallopian tubes, labia, clitoris, breasts and most can carry a baby in the womb to term and then feed that baby from their breasts. Woman is the term used to describe female-bodied people who are adults. The word girl describes a female-bodied child. A male-bodied person has one or more of the following body parts: testicles, penis, prostrate. The word man is used to describe an adult male-bodied person, while boy is used for a male-bodied child.

    We give people and things words that identify them so that we can communicate through spoken or written language.

    The gender roles and stereotypes assigned to woman and man are false and were created by patriarchal false thinking and desire to control.

    If you are born in a male-body, desiring to be a woman does not make you a woman and desiring to be a man does not make you a man. You may prefer acting out the gender roles and stereotypes assigned by patriarchy to the definitional categories woman, man but that does not mean you have become a woman or a man.

    Some male-bodied people say that women should not talk about their wombs, vaginas, ovaries, pregnancy or anything peculiar to being female-bodies, because they don’t have them. They say it is trans-exclusive, trans-phobic, or trans-mysoginist.

    Female-bodied people should not accept the effort to redefine them nor accept that they cannot talk about their bodies without oppressing male-bodied people. A male-bodied person can never know what it is like to live in a female body and the joys and sorrows it can bring. A female-bodied person can never know what it is like to live in a male body and the joys and sorrows it can bring.

    I am a female-bodied person. I know what it is like to feel another human being move inside of my womb; or to menstruate and have cramps, and so much more. I cannot feel what it is like to have a penis and testicles hanging from my body or what it is like to use a penis to urinate or have sex. It is not possible because I don’t live in that body.

    I do not know why men/boys and women/girls are believing that you can be the opposite-bodied person just because you prefer their roles and stereotypes.

    I don’t know why women do not see and understand what the ultimate consequences will be for us…. Silence and invisibility once again.

    It seems to me there is a better way. We are in the bodies we were born into. We can celebrate every variation of these bodies, male, female intersex. Surgery does not make us male- or femal- or intersex-bodied people, genetics does. What needs to go is the patriarchal roles and stereotypes that have been used to oppress everyone.

    When we exhibit these roles and stereotypes we reinforce our own oppression.

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    Posted by Elethia | January 20, 2016, 3:18 pm
    • You should write your own blog since you have a lot to say. You are entitled to your opinion as am I. Don’t forget I am a woman too, but I see my wife who is trans as a woman as well. So sad that your world is so black and white. Mine as well as others is more colorful.


      Posted by Maritza Cummings (Ritz) | January 20, 2016, 3:48 pm
  3. So, you want us to accept that your husband(or boyfriend)is not a male and allow him to be a part of our experience when it is those same males that are the problem. Hint: You are being used by a man. Just like a lot every typical male. He just happens to have a fetish.

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    Posted by Doug | January 21, 2016, 12:51 pm
    • First of all I could care less what you want, my wife, who by the way is legally my spouse, is legally a female and her existence does not rely on your approval. No one has the power to use me, sad that you feel some one has that power over your weak mind. Maybe that is the problem with most rad fems, they are weak and project their anger at men. Live your life and stop projecting on others.


      Posted by Maritza Cummings (Ritz) | January 21, 2016, 3:16 pm
    • P.S. trans is not a fetish for everyone, learn respect and to be a decent human being. Fighting for your cult will leave you lonely abd bitter.


      Posted by Maritza Cummings (Ritz) | January 21, 2016, 3:21 pm
      • What do you think now Maritza? You have decided to de-transition and be a heterosexual wife of
        a mtftm heterosexual man. You will be told to submit to your husband like the Bible says, even though they will tell you he has to submit to you too. You will end up being dominated by him. But that is your choice and I hope it works for you.
        But now you don’t believe a woman can transition to a man and a man can’t transition to a woman. You know that now. Why should lesbian women have male intrusions into their women-only spaces? It is just another example of men dominating and intruding upon women. Why can’t they live their lives and quit aggressively infiltrating women’s’ space? They really can’t relate to what it is to be a woman or a lesbian.


        Posted by Camille | September 25, 2016, 5:50 am
  4. @camille, I honor and love Paul, I have given my heart to Jesus and accepted him as my Lord and Savior. I have no problem being obedient, not because I have to but because I want to. God has shown me love and mercy and delivered both Paul and me. Transitioning is impossible for any human being, an illusion created by modern medicine. Women’s spaces should be respected, and trans women should realize that they are not women. Women are born baby girls, then evolve and mature to be women.

    Anything that is against God’s will, can lead us into problematic situations that unfold in our lives, although many are to blind or refuse to see. Only when we are good with God can we find peace and eternal life.

    God Bless



    Posted by Maritza Lopez | September 25, 2016, 3:05 pm

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